Friday, April 23, 2010

lightning and thunder

24th April 2010, 11.05am
Had delightful dinner last night until not much photos taken.
highly recommended chicken wings

waiting for my hair to grow longer


~love comes naturally just like the thunder and lightning~

Thursday, April 22, 2010

sleeping is my best solution

22nd April 2010, 6.10pm
Officially got back my room! i missed it so much! =) my cousins were occupying it for the last 2 weeks, i did not mind at all though.Enjoyed their company whilst having less time spent on studies, feeling extremely guilty now and it's time to be more hardworking. Audit mock test was today and the effort put in was 30%. My mood is moderately good these few days, though i'm behind time in terms of studies and assignment, also despite having the feeling of being isolated and ignored. I enjoy sleeping through unhappiness!

~great appetite and craves for delicious food lately and will be kicing off to yoga later~

Friday, April 16, 2010

ALL I EVER WANTED TOUR

17th April 2010, 1.20pm
Time to get my hands on the one and only assignment this semester, so many journals to read through. i'd better be hardworking this weekend, i'm going for KELLY CLARKSON'S concert next sunday, something which i never ever expected to happen, WHEE! credits to my uncle and my cousin sis. It's free standing tickets and pretty close to the stage, I'm so excited! seeing her in person.it's been long since i went for a concert, my last one was Michael Learns To Rock.
~this made my day!~

Thursday, April 15, 2010

know it but difficult to apply it

16th April 2010, 10.45am
Men are most prone to argue when they have made a mistake or upset the woman they love.
Due to he is not validating her point of view or speaking in a caring way and her disapproval in her tone of voice wounded her man, argument arises. In the beginning of a relationship, she gives him the message that she approves him or he feels confident that he can win her approval and feel loved. Women commonly interrogate about his behavior with a disapproving tone. They do this because they think it will teach him a lesson. However it does not provide a lesson but creates fear and resentment to him. Gradually, he becomes less and less motiveted to show his love.
Here are some solutions:
1.communicate with a loving, validating and approving attitude
2.accept and understand that no one is perfect
3.see IT(the argument) coming and lie it low for awhile,take a time out to center yourself
4.to approve is to find the loving intention or the goodness behind the outside behavior.

~sometimes silent moments or nothing to say do not mean hung up the phone, it's the companion and being there that matter~

peace in me

15th April 2010, 10.05pm
Just completed my International Finance Time Constraint Assessment today. Did not sleep well due to the extremely hot weather, had stomach ache before the test, was so worried that i can't focus for the exam. I had a bad experience before back in primary school when i had terrible stomach ache till i almost flung my objective paper as i can't concentrate, but lucky i managed to do well in the subjective paper, didn't want the same nightmare to happen again. i'm so scared but i can't turn my worries to anyone, people surrounding were also busy preparing for the exam. Fortunately, the test today ended well and i can answer most of the questions. After auditing class, i went for my first yoga class in my life, i feel so refreshed now after i sweat and relaxed.

here are some position i did just now,gonna have terrible body ache tomorrow

~had a peace of mind for a moment~ =)

Sunday, April 11, 2010

another tying knot event!

11th April 2010, 7.50pm
Another cousin of mine got married. Should feel happy about it, but photos taken with my ugly hairstyle made it imperfect.
with the bride, no photos of the bridegroom taken..

the sweet couple which i attended their wedding in sweden back in 2007

when will our respective's wedding be?

soon will be sis turn in december
~my health not in good condition~ =(

Thursday, April 1, 2010

1st April 2010, 7.30pm
In need of something to cheer me up, though i might be fooled on April Fool.